Bully

Assalamualaikum and hai! so for this entry I would like to share about my life experience when I was in secondary school. but before that, I would like to introduce myself. My name is Mohamad Zaireen Eizhan bin Mohamad Ali, I'm 20 years old and I live at Kampung Beladin, Pusa, Sarawak. Currently, I am pursuing my study at the UNIMAS, taking a Counseling course which will take 4 years to be completed. Okay, now back to the story that I would like to share. In 2011, I got an offer to study at new school. obviously that everyone would be happy yet so sad because you have to forced yourself to away from your love ones, which is your family! I met a lot of new people from different palces.

I took silat as my sort of 'Persatuan', me and my friends decided to choose this because we love to try something new, which I have never experienced it before. As the time flies, I always attend the meetings and practiced everyday in the afternoon. But, at one time, my seniors started to bully just on me, making laugh of me in front of their friends, scoffed me everyday which I don't know why they did that towards me. They also told me to iron their clothes for almost every day. I got a friend which the same age as them. He always cover me for not doing that kind of bad behavior towards me but they won't listen to him. There was some point, I got cried a lot at some quite places with him. I don't have  any idea about what to do and who to tell this situation. they warned me to not to tell to the warden. I was thinking that I was very skinny and so small during that time and that's why they took me their sort of 'victim'. Everyday after school, they willing to deliberately waiting for me just to see and mocking me along the way to the dormitory. They talking negatively about me when I was walking in front of them. But everytime they do that. I will force myself to walk faster and sometimes I ran straight away to my room. They laugh at me when i did that. I was very stressful and suffered for 2 years.

in 2013, i got my PMR result and i didn't get a chance to pursue my study at that school. and i was got back to my old school which near to my hometown and i was very happy to see all of my close friends back. that's all from me and thank you so much for the time you gave to read my story. Bye!

(you can ask me anythinng  about my life experience at the comment section below)

Mohamad Zaireen Eizhan bin Mohamad Ali
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MY JOURNEY BEGIN (SALWA SHAHMINAN)

Hello everyone, It's me again, Salwa. I assumed that you guys had read my earlier post right? Thank you for all warm wishes and supporting words for me. It do makes me happy and I love it so much! Actually, I don't have any idea to write about for this second post because  I feel tired for past 3 days and I feel exhausted and fatigue but no worries, I'll be sharing my experience in UNIMAS. So, hoepfully you guys will love it and please keep on reading.

My father and I on the registration day. (I MISS HIM)

I want to pursue my studies in Sarawak only because my father won't allowed me to get into any other universities except UNIMAS. So I just follow what he want and most of my choice in UPU, I just put the UNIMAS programme. At first, I quite sad because I really want to study in Universiti Malaysia Sabah because I really love Sabah so much. But, when I think about it again it is such a grateful thing to me because I get a chance to study in my own state and I will not feel the homesick-thingy but surely I miss home too (longing for homecooking and my fluffy cats). I get really excited when I know I got my UPU result which is my first choice. My first choice is the Counselling programme, the second was Psychology and the third one is Linguistic. This is my top of the list that I wished I can get one of it so now I really got the first choice! Can you guys feel me? 

This picture was taken before the Majlis Ikrar Pelajar

After the student's vow event, I'm now officially one of the UNIMAS student and I'm really proud of it. I can belive that I managed to be in here and it's like a dream come true. My journey had just begun and I don't know if I'm able to suvive for this semester and the upcoming 4 years also. It's quite tough for me at first especially when it comes to find our class on the first day.It was an interesting stuff to do because apart from the mission to find the class, I also get the chance to sight-seeing around UNIMAS. I like to see the buildings in here because it is unique and the design also fantastic! The times flies so fast and I can't believed that I've almost 3 months staying here and still counting for the best days to come. Pray for me that I will stay strong and keep myself motivated guys! And I pray for you guys too don't worry.

Having this matric card is like an honour for me

I am forever grateful to be here, to be a part of UNIMAS and still looking forward for my own knowledge and experience. I think the most challenging part in UNIMAS is making new friends because I'm an introvert and tends to get anxious to greet with people especially in a new environment. After this 3 months, I only have few friends because I'm not a person who will be the first one to talk with someone that I just met. So if you guys want to be friend with me, I would love to accept you as my friends. Pardon my face if it's look like I'm a cold-hearted person but trust me it just my normal face reaction only. You can say hello if you see me somewhere and don't be shy. 

My first picture at Jambatan Cinta UNIMAS

Last but not least,what I learnt from Basic Helping Skills is I learn how to accept other people as a unique human being. Besides that, I also learn some skills and techniques to become a professional helper which is known as a counsellor. I want to be a better person at first by helping myself but at the same time having the courage to help others. I want to help people to gain more motivation and helps them finding way back to solve their problems. It might be hard for this firts year but surely I can be the best among the best people if I have the urge to keep on doing the thing that I love. I think that's all for now and I hope this post wouldn't make you guys to feel bored and I pray that you guys will always be happy in no matter what situation you're in. We are in this journey together, let's walk together and keep moving forward. Stay positive!

With love, 

Salwa Shahminan

MY NEXT STEP

NUR ASYIQIN BINTI HUSLI(68404)

Assalamualaikum and hello guys!😉 First of all, I am Nur Asyiqin Binti Husli and you all can just call me Syiqin. I was born on 15th April 1998 and I am 20 years old even my height was not determined with it. I came from Limbang Sarawak which is between Brunei Darussalam and Temburong. Actually I have a great fears of cats and it is called as ailurophobia since I was a child. Okay now I would like to share about my experience before entering this Unimas. After the STPM , my friend and I were decided to find a part-time job as both of us want to work and have our own money. Alhamdulillah we manage to get jobs as the sales assistant at "The Place Departmental Store" in Limbang. After a few months, the STPM's result has been announced and all of us were asked to fill the UPU to be qualified to enter any university. Then the UPU results being announced but my 3 friends and I were not qualified to enter the university. Hu hu hu so sad😢 But we still think positively that maybe our name were in b40 under Unimas which is held on the last April at my old school named as SMK Kubong Limbang. Suddenly I got an email from Mr Ali which is listed the name that being under b40 in Unimas. Alhamdulillah my name is listed!😍I am so grateful that I have a chance to further my studies of degree in Unimas at Kota Samarahan, Sarawak. On 4th September of this year is the first day I enter this Unimas. As we can see that Unimas is one of the best university in Malaysia and it makes me feel more excited to explore more about this university. For the whole week I keep on crying because of missing my home especially to my mom and dad. But then after 3 weeks, I felt more comfortable with this surroundings of university. I have learned a lot of things since the first day I enter this university. Besides that, I also met new people in this new places which is in the same course of mine. Then I also learned how to build a trust on someone based on BHS under Dr Fa the cute one!😘 I feel so sleepy right now, so enjoy your day without stress💕 Thank you for lending me your attention guys💖

EXCITING NEW EXPERIENCE

NUR ASYIQIN BINTI HUSLI (68404)

Assalamualaikum and hello everyone! First of all, I would like to introduce myself as a young, dumb and broke girl named as Nur Asyiqin Binti Husli or you guys can also call me as Syiqin. I was born on 15 April 1998 3.48 a.m and I am 20 years old. Okay now I would like to start my story on my exciting new experience guys ha ha ha!😂Actually on the first day Dr Fa gives us the individual assignment, I thought that this kind of assignment is kind a bored and stressful. But I was totally wrong when I start to do this task. I can feel the interesting on doing this assignment and it besomes more fun when it comes to the task that ask us to list the 3 good things within the 7 days. For almost 6 weeks doing the task, I have learned a lot of things that I do not even mind before. I start to know more about myself than before. Besides that, I also met new people at the new places which is so different with my ex-school where I attend for STPM. I was struggling to adapt with the situations in this university because I did not familiar with it. Teachers at my old school is so different with my new lecturers in this Unimas. This is because most of the lecturers are prefer to give those assignments without any full of guidance so that students will be more independent and will be appreciated more for our efforts on those works. Then I would like to share my experience on how I done my group assignment with my team member namely as Cassey and Amu. We had so much fun on doing the assignments that have to be done with a video too. We were struggling to finish it by the end of the mid-semester but then we realize that our video has a lot of deficiencies and needs to be fixed somewhat. So we agreed to record a new video and ultimately we have successfully produced a video that accurate with the questions that have been given by Dr Fa. Alhamdulillah!💕 And through this group assignments, I saw that my team members are quite fun and good as well. They are some of the best team members I ever had as they cooperate with me as a family members even we are not in the same religion. I am very thankful for the friendship that we build in this Unimas. Thats all from me. Have a nice day everyone!🙋

Focus Gais!

Assalamualaikum and hi there!

So, let us be more matured in this entry kay. I've been in UNIMAS since 2 September 2018 which is two months already passed. I became more clearer with my purpose of entering UNIMAS everyday. Each time I'm working with my assignment and studies, I learned new experiences. I notice that I become more independent and matured as I'm now in university level. However, I do face difficulty when dealing with group or even individual assignment. I tend to be so lazy to do the assignment but I still feel grateful since I'm able to control this attitude. I hope you guys can pray for me that I would overcome this bad attitude. I senses that I become more cool and brave for each presentation. I learned lots of thing while conducting the latest live helping session assignment where I find that I am good while acting conducting a counselling session as a trainee counselor. I thought I would be so bad at it. I find that all I need is courage. I learned that when one gain their courage, everything would be so smooth. I also learned that to be a courage person, ones need practice and high determination.

Regarding subject KMC1083 Basic Helping Skills, I learned to be a good counsellor, trainee counsellor need to have skills in conducting a counselling session. It might not be as easy as we thought but it never been hard once we understand how to apply it. I have a tip on conducting a good counselling session. I think I suit best with this tip. Everyone feel nervous for the first time right, so just start practicing without concerning whether we are good or not. We can always refer to our lectures or coursemates.  I learned that one can start practicing with Person Centered Therapy theory (PCT) since it is the simplest theory to understand and to conduct. A counsellor need to be congruent, empathy and respect to the client. However, if we conduct a counselling session without proper skills, we should not even called ourselves a trainee counsellor. So, never feel stupid when you have to learn basic skills from the beginning again just because you did not remember because a learner always study to become an expert.

So, my wish for my coursemates is I hope everyone can study to the earnest of their heart.

by NURFATHIAH EZANEE BINTI ZAILANI 67283

I MADE IT.....?!

         

Almost coming to the end of semester 1 in UNIMAS, I felt like it was an intense short life changing experience for me. With all the assignments due dates, the lectures, the activities and programmes, the conflicts, problems and emotional breakdown in between, I think i have became a stronger person now compared to before.

          Overall, the life here in UNIMAS for the first semester is very good so far, I get to learn a lot of things and deal with different type of individual. I met some good people and some that I would prefer to call them the one that gave me a lesson in life. Whether it is a good or bad experience, i would like to keep it as memory that I would treasure forever.

          During the long period of hecticness, I get to learn new things and experience especially when doing the assignments. I learnt that our ways of working is not always the same therefore commitment and cooperation is very important. Besides that, I also get to identify the few that might not be a quite functional or contributing when it comes to doing group assignments. However, its all about the outcomes, in my opinion, at least.

          Some of the assignment that were given was really challenging to the point that I started to doubt my ability to achieve it and continue my studies in this programme. Thankfully, the people around me helped me a lot through the process until i am able to finish the assignment. Therefore, if there is anything that I have regretted about is that I ever doubted myself in being able to get through the hardships while being here.   

          In conclusion, the whole first semester was such a memorable experience for me. No matter how good or bad the situation is, I am thankful for the precious people that stayed by my side till the end. Doing the assignments was such an enjoyable and fruitful thing for me, eventhough there are stress, pressure and tension, the feeling of getting it done is probably the most joyful feeling ever. Now, we only have to focus for the final exams, therefore, all the best everyone ! 

Shhh.. A Love Story?

Assalamualaikum and good evening. I’m Fathiah. Today, I would love to write a love story of me. Yeah guys! I’m going to share with you my love story. Do leave comment for my post ya, guys. Ok, my love story began when I wait for the letter that day. I’m anxiously wait for it. I’m so excited and yet scared too. I believe it would be a memorable day because I wait for quiet so long. It is the day when I received a letter from UNIMAS. Yeah, I trick you guys. My love become so much clear when I reach Kuala Lumpur International Airport 2. It is always been my dream to enter university. I still remember where I arrive at UNIMAS with my mom, dad, younger sister and both of my grandparents along with my uncle. I act very tough that day. I try to hide my excitement and love for UNIMAS. I really looking forward to be a part of UNIMAS but I don’t expect to be here and fall in love with counselling programme. My second choice in UPU system is Psychology at UNIMAS. At first, I do get sad because I really want to pursue in Psychology. However, I told myself that it is okay. As long as I get into UNIMAS, I wouldn’t mind. I already study and do some research about UNIMAS before I get the love letter. Part of UNIMAS that get my attention most is the swimming pool. I really love swimming and you know what, until now I didn’t get the chance to swim in the pool because I get so busy with my beloved counselling programme and of course I'm very active with clubs. I love UNIMAS because I can do almost everything I want and all I have is time.It is my responsibility to divide my time fairly for both academic and non-academic activities. I really enjoy my self being in UNIMAS for four years, In Shaa Allah. I want to challenge myself throughout these four years of studies. No matter how hard it is to be a trainee counsellor, I would express myself freely here. At first, I might walk too slow but please never underestimated me because I know I can become the best of FATHIAH in the meantime. I fall in love with counselling when I see lots of similarity between me and counselling every day. I might lack of confident now and I might be a little bit lazy student yesterday. But you know what, I never been so happy for tomorrow especially when I’m in UNIMAS. Okay, now you guys know my secret. So, let it just be our secret okay? Shhhhhhh… My love for counselling and UNIMAS grows everyday guys. So, hwaiting! Let’s be the best of us throughout these four year!

By NURFATHIAH EZANEE BINTI ZAILANI 67283