PRACTICE MAKE PERFECT !

Can we value what is the meaning of perfect ? No we can. Because nobody perfect. But doing something can makes ourselves feel perfect.

SYAHIRAH BINTI ABDUL HAMID

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My point about this topic is whatever I had learned in this class actually give me from nothing to everything. Before I entered in this class, my mind feel zero about this helping skills. I feel uneasy to study together with friends in this classes. I feels that my knowledge about helping skill and my English language is not as good as the others. But from this issues, I tried my best to improve my knowledge step by step. and now, I'm still under progressing to improve and to increase my knowledge. I'm actually crying on my first day in class but nobody noticed about that. But I ignore that feeling because my mom said that tears is a key to success. You may cry now but don't cry about your failure on you graduation day soon. On top of that, I always remind myself to keep on moving when I'm feeling down.  Instead of that, I'm always learn from mistakes that I had did. For example, what I did in Diploma, I want to promise myself not to keep on doing in Degree. 

My first expression about this subject in this class is teaching me how to control our emotion with the practice skill by ourselves. And I'm also think that this class teach how to manage our client with the skills. And I'm true about this yeay ... Instead of that, with the skills that I had learned from this class makes me easier to manage my client in future. 

From this story, I summarized that I enjoyed during this class session. And I'm happy with the activities in the class with friends I loved. And I want to thanks a lot to Dr. Fa for teaching us with patient with our attitude. 

Lot of love.

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WHAT I LEARN FROM THIS CLASS

MARCOS ANAK JAMAL

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my first class when i already register my course is basic helping skills. I was alone before that because i don't have any friends and we don't know each others. I learn something knew from this. I have see my class mate and they very friendly. The first assignment that i should do is about myself. i very joyful when i do my first assignment. besides that, this is my first time write my assignment using my own word without translate from google. i very thankful to DR. Fa because she teach me something that i never knew before.

Prof Datin Dr Aizan (2002) states between skill that is basic in helping is skill build relationships, skill encourage client speak, skill return, structuring skill, skill question, paraphrase skill, listening skills, skill lead directly, communicative skills, skill do minimum inducement, skill make feeling reflection, skill make an interpretation, skill make klarifikasi, skill explore, focusing skill, challenging skill, skill berempati, skill face silence, skill know theory and counselling techniques, skill give information, skill formulate, skill survey client, confrontation skill and skill check perception.

Before counselling session started, counselor should check client records to obtain information considered useful. Counselor also should be checking client task description. This may be useful to help in evaluating performance and process of building aim then later. Apart from that, counselor also must provide place and time that are suitable to discussed without many distractions. After that in a counselling session that is successful, counselor should try make client feel free in early per session. Showing because meeting clearly, while emphasising that counselor feel considerate with condition faced by 👦👦👦client and ready to give help.

Listen to actively Merupakan a skill that is most rudimentary and most important in counselling session. In this matter, counselor need spend more the time listen to from interrupt client speech. To really understand what has been talked by client, counselor have to pass on focus and observation that fully to hear all client speech. Other than speech, client movement (body language) while talking also should be seen and heard equally. All client's behaviour also play role that is important in delivering meaning certain the expression. Understanding that is accurate only will be acquired with the existence of good listening. In counselling context, there is couple of things that need in listen namely table of contents talked about, feeling born through behaviour without oral and also listened feeling stated. 

Listening is closely related by paying attention. Brammer (1973) formulates : tampa attention, only listened will not bring to comprehension, then communication does not exist. Listen to actively very important in every counselling level, the importance of listen to actively kereana it involving three kompenen namely eye contact, style listen to, and response, third kompenen show action pay attention actively or listen to actively.

My 2nd Chance!

Assalamualaikum and Good Morning dear readers 😆
So today on this bright and sunny Monday, I want to share with you guy my first experience that I get while learning in Basic Helping Skill class with Dr. Fa. So before I start let me introduce myself. My name is Anis ‘Asyikin and three years ago I was a Diploma in Counselling student and now I am a Degree in Counselling student. There is nothing to brag about that, cause there is a lot of thing that I don’t know about counselling.

Learning Basic Helping Skills is like giving myself a second chance to improve and gain more knowledge. Even though there are a few thing that Dr Fa tech in class that I already know, but there are a lot more that I need more explanation. When I was in diploma, I need to do my practical in any setting that I want in order to graduate. So my practical period was between 5th semester and 6th semester so the memory of my practical is still fresh in my mind. While doing my practical, there are a few thing that I don’t understand, so I take this chance to ask Dr Fa about it. It’s like giving me another chance to ask as many I want and learn as many I can. Its kind fun because I can know even more than what I used to know. While doing my practical at the hospital, I was disclosed to many cases from rape case to child abuse case. So when I enter Dr Fa class, I get the chance to ask and get more explanations about certain things. I hope I can learnt much more through out my degree life.

Anis 'Asyikin Binti Agus Salim
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WHAT I LEARNED IN CLASS

ASSALAMUALAIKUM AND HELLO EVERYBODY... 

My first impression about counseling is the only teacher. Help student and everything about student only not about people out of the school. So now it changes my perception about counseling. After that, I know the job as a counselor just listening to other people that want to share with us, no need technic just listening. So I totally wrong about counseling, it maybe because before this I am accounting's student, not counseling. so I did not know much about counseling. I very lack knowledge about counseling. To make people say their problem or issue actually needs technic that can make they believe us. It actually not easy to handle human because humanly is unique. Before to make people  trust us, we must train our self first to trust people. Yeah, it not easy but we must learn it how to handle it. To be a good counselor, we must have enough spirit. Humanly is unique, in this world, there are many variety people that not same with other. That why in this world have yes and no as answers. Not everyone will choose yes, certain people will choose no. 

       

 Humanly is unique

I enjoy to learned in class with Dr. Fa and friends. It teaches me how to handle client when doing the counseling session. How to use technic when to handle the client. Not with everyone we can use the same technic, sometimes we must change it. I also learn how to make client say more about their problem. When do the session, as a counselor we can not give an advice and can not choose the decision for client even client to want we do that to them. It is wrong. As a counselor, we only discuss with the client that were tangled with their problem. Explain to them what will happen if they choose this way and what will happen if they choose the another way. Every decision is only made by the client, not by the counselor. But we must accept the reality, not every problem we can help them to solve it. Sometimes there is  a problem that we can not help them but can refer them to another counselor or another place that more suitable to help them. When that thing happens we can not blame our own self because counselor also human that can do a mistake.
That all, thank you for reading...^_^

        

-Norshahira Binti Abu Bakar-59461-

MAKE ME REALISE

Assignment 1

It’s about our self….

And make the good things

Even its just a little things

But, that make me realise and be grateful

Actually… in our daily life, we have done good things.

Assignment 2

It’s in group assignment….

We must take and do video that related based on helping skills

Work together for make it look perfect.

I still remember when each of group member must present in front of the class

I was nervous and felt can’t do it and not ready

I told madam that I have “darah gemuruh” when speaking in front

And don’t have confidently to speech

Madam was said likely “ but you still can smile even you have that “

A smile can hide our weakness and nervous . That’s power of a smile.

I have learned so many things that I never realise it,

It is open my eyes and my mind for looking move forward

And make the step that we want to create

To helps other people we must help our self first

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She’s like my mother

Her smile, voice and all the things remind me,

I’m so grateful to know her

Thank you Madam J .

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When I Learned For the First Time

Assalamualaikum wbt and have a greats day my dears friend....

           My father gave my name is Noorsilah and just called me SILAH. hehe..  Okey... I wanna to say nice to be here and can be a part of you all guys, especially in the class Basic Helping Skills. In the class BHS, I have learned how to be an effective helper and learn the other skills to helps the people in our life. There many skills that we never thought and sometimes we used it to help. Its a greats thing when I can learn somethings in this class with my news friend and also in the new environment. 

WHY my title is When I learned for the First Time ?

        actually, my heart wasn't prepared for it... but I want to learn somethings new and get an amazing experience at the other place especially at UNIMAS, Sarawak >< . Firstly when I have attended Dr.Fa class, madam ask for us what is Basic Helping Skills and what do you know about BHS ??? as a counsellor to be, we must learn and knows the basic skills for helping people and it also must begin to us for help ourself first. 

                                                                 
                          I need your HELP
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I have learned,

Learned the ways that I never thought to be,

Learned the ways that I have never realise I can be here,

And,

Learned the Basic Helping Skills to become a counsellor/helper to be.

There are many ways to make choice in our life
So just make the step that can promise happiness
Even in the first step you have fall 

And 
There are many ways for helping people to face they problem

No matter your friends or someone else you know and never know also

Be a good helper and the one can believing you

Be a good counsellor and the one can build trust on you.
                                        

                              

Try your harder to solved the some issues

And make decision with their who needed some help and stronger

_Noorsilah Said_57008

basic helping skill

Hi everyone? nice to me you guys. i going to say what was my first experience when the first time i attend Dr.Fa class, Basic Helping Skill. but, i would like to share how was i when the first day attend this classes and the other. My friend is Umi Syamira ,she always helping me. for the first day i attend the classes until today. 

When the first time i attend BHS class, there are many new face i meet. we learn a lot of thing from Dr. Fa in how human thinking and also their perception to other people without they knowing and understand how they feeling. from that i have learn a lot of thing and also i can studies how human facing others people when they were in a problem.

Sometime what does i learn from this classes, it related in my daily life. Basic Helping Skill when i hear it i think it only learn something that only the basic about my course but after i try to understand it this subject is related to the theory that i learn from Madam Aina classes. there were a differences on other theory and sometime it also similar,

Last but not least, BHS is help me to try understanding the studies of my course . How a counselor or the therapist going to handle their client problem and issues that very influence them and the others people around them.

Thank you. Leave your comment. 

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