WHAT I LEARN FROM THIS CLASS

MARCOS ANAK JAMAL

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my first class when i already register my course is basic helping skills. I was alone before that because i don't have any friends and we don't know each others. I learn something knew from this. I have see my class mate and they very friendly. The first assignment that i should do is about myself. i very joyful when i do my first assignment. besides that, this is my first time write my assignment using my own word without translate from google. i very thankful to DR. Fa because she teach me something that i never knew before.

Prof Datin Dr Aizan (2002) states between skill that is basic in helping is skill build relationships, skill encourage client speak, skill return, structuring skill, skill question, paraphrase skill, listening skills, skill lead directly, communicative skills, skill do minimum inducement, skill make feeling reflection, skill make an interpretation, skill make klarifikasi, skill explore, focusing skill, challenging skill, skill berempati, skill face silence, skill know theory and counselling techniques, skill give information, skill formulate, skill survey client, confrontation skill and skill check perception.

Before counselling session started, counselor should check client records to obtain information considered useful. Counselor also should be checking client task description. This may be useful to help in evaluating performance and process of building aim then later. Apart from that, counselor also must provide place and time that are suitable to discussed without many distractions. After that in a counselling session that is successful, counselor should try make client feel free in early per session. Showing because meeting clearly, while emphasising that counselor feel considerate with condition faced by 👦👦👦client and ready to give help.

Listen to actively Merupakan a skill that is most rudimentary and most important in counselling session. In this matter, counselor need spend more the time listen to from interrupt client speech. To really understand what has been talked by client, counselor have to pass on focus and observation that fully to hear all client speech. Other than speech, client movement (body language) while talking also should be seen and heard equally. All client's behaviour also play role that is important in delivering meaning certain the expression. Understanding that is accurate only will be acquired with the existence of good listening. In counselling context, there is couple of things that need in listen namely table of contents talked about, feeling born through behaviour without oral and also listened feeling stated. 

Listening is closely related by paying attention. Brammer (1973) formulates : tampa attention, only listened will not bring to comprehension, then communication does not exist. Listen to actively very important in every counselling level, the importance of listen to actively kereana it involving three kompenen namely eye contact, style listen to, and response, third kompenen show action pay attention actively or listen to actively.