PENGALAMAN DALAM KELAS KMC1083 BASIC HELPING SKILLS

              Assalammualaikum dan selamat sejahtera saya ucapkan kepada para sahabat dan  pensyarah (Dr.Fatahyah Yahya) yang saya kasihi sekalian. Pada kesempatan ini saya ingin menceritakan serba sedikit pengalaman saya  sepanjang berada di dalam kelas KMC1083 Basic Helping Skills. Hari pertama saya menghadiri kelas ini saya tercari – cari di mana terletaknya FSKPM, TR1. Sebaik sahaja saya masuk ke dalam kelas, terdapat ramai pelajar lain yang sudah sampai. Saya berasa segan untuk masuk kerana saya merasakan saya yang paling lewat masuk kelas pada masa itu. Beberapa minit kemudian, Dr. Fa masuk dan Dr. Fa memainkan sebuah video untuk memecahkan suasana yang sunyi. Selepas video itu dimainkan, kami diminta untuk duduk dalam bulatan. Sebaik sahaja kami selesai duduk, Dr. Fa meminta kami untuk menulis nama sendiri di atas satu kertas dan Dr. Fa menanyakan tentang kekuatan kami satu persatu.

             Pada masa inilah saya sedar saya tidak tahu akan kekuatan diri saya. Setiap bibit kata Dr. Fa memberikan semangat kepada saya untuk terus meningkatkan semangat dan keyakinan diri dalam setiap aspek. Pada hari pertama saya mengenali subjek ini, saya dapat merasakan saya akan meminati subjek ini. Ternyata apa yang saya rasakan itu memang benar - benar terjadi. Saya sangat meminati subjek ini dan saya juga jatuh cinta dengan pensyarah yang mengajar subjek ini( Dr.Fa). Saya sangat suka cara Dr.Fa menjelaskan dan mengajar isi – isi yang terdapat dalam subjek ini.

Pendek kata, selama lebih satu bulan saya mempelajari subjek ini terdapat banyak pengetahuan baru yang saya perolehi. Sebagai contoh, saya dapat mempelajari bagaimana teknik – teknik dalam menolong orang lain, teori- teori yang diaplikasikan dan sebagainya. Hal ini memberi kesedaran kepada betapa pentingnya mengetahui asas – asas menolong sebelum kita memberikan pertolongan kepada orang lain. Selain itu, saya juga dapat merasai pengalaman dalam membuat kerja kursus secara individu. Semasa saya membuat kerja kursus ini , saya berasa sangat gembira kerana diberikan kesempatan untuk menceritakan serba sedikit latar belakang dan pengalaman hidup saya. Saya juga gembira kerana saya dapat menyiapkan tugasan ini tepat pada masanya.

           Akhir kata, saya ingin mengatakan bahawa untuk menjadi seorang kaunselor yang professional dan bertauliah, kita hendaklah terlebih dahulu mengetahui asas – asas dalam memberi pertolongan dan tahu teori- teori yang patut dipraktikkan dalam melakukan sesebuah sesi. Saya ingin mengucapkan ribuan terima kasih kepada Dr. Fa kerana memberi kesempatan untuk menulis sedikit pengalaman di dalam blog ini. Sekian terima kasih.

DAYANG NURHANANI BINTI ABANG ZULKIPLI-60621

SECOND POST: BASIC HELPING SKILL CLASS

BASIC HELPING SKILL

Hii everyone... Second class on 26/9/2017 for Basic Helping Skill was cancel by Dr. Fa. Which want my classmate and I to do the assignment at that time. I was started do the parts of my background part which is to tell about myself, my family and my education. I feel happy because can do this assignment, this is because i know most about myself and my family although it is naturely know about ourself but before this, we did not care about it. Besides, we also can understanding more about ourself which is our behavior and attitude. 

For my third class that is tuesday on 3/10/2017, I was learned about the Perry’s stages which is have the dualistic or right/ wrong stage, the mutiplistic stage (beginner) and the relativistic stage (old time). From my understanding, the Dualistic is you cannot focus what the client said because you are busy to find the answer. The Multiplistic stage is you do not know want ask which questions first but you know the questions. The Relativistic stage is have a option whether the good outcomes or bad outcomes. 

Besides, i also learn about the timeline, confidentiality, client autonomy and so on. We also learn about the effective communication which have verbal and non-verbal. We can talk or our body language to communicate. At that day, i have something miss because Dr. Fa was too fast like roket but, i have ask my friends to make me understand the part which I don’t understand. 

On 10/10/2017, when Dr. Fa come with a senior year 4 which is want my classmates and I to be a client. I was so excited because it is a chance to have a experience. It can also know the procedure to handle a client. I was wrote my name to be a client to take a experience. 

At that morning, Dr. Fa was did a reflection what did we learned at last week and i was thought or recall back what did i learned. At that time, i was worry because i haven't read because busy with assignment. Thanks to god that the Dr. Fa did not call my name. Then, we continue the next chapter and we was learned about minimal response, restate, paraphrase, clarifying, checking, reflection, questioning and other. At the end of the class, we was divided to 8 group which have 4 member in a group. We was give 10 minutes to discuss. After we discuss, we share our answer to classmates. And the class was finished.

I think that only can i share to you all. Thanks For Read. Byee.  

#oh my english.. 

Joseph Lee 

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GROUP ASSIGNMENT.. 

https://youtu.be/O9lX2Y69ep0 - SHORT VIDEO (5 MIN)

https://youtu.be/HnjEiMqQngo - FULL VIDEO (20 MIN)

SECOND POST: MY EXPERIENCE DURING CLASS OF BASIC HELPING SKILL

In the class of Basic Helping Skill every Tuesday start from 9 am to 12 pm, I feel excited when I was walk to the Faculty and want to enter the class faster. Before Dr.Fa entered to the class, the class monitor will log in the ELEAP first to prepare faster before the lecturer entered the class. When in the class of Basic Helping Skill before we started the new topics, Dr. Fa will refresh back the topics that teached before and ask questions. After refresh back the topics, Dr Fa will start the new lessons after this. In every new lessons, Dr Fa will share to us many types of interesting stories such as the interesting moment and unforgettable memories when doing the counselling session and in her real life. Sometimes it was interesting and funny until we can't feel asleep. Dr Fa always said that people was unique and cannot judge people by its cover. As a trainee counselor, we must know ourselves before we as a helper to help other people.

Before the class started, the senior for final year came into the class and ask us to become the client for them to collect the credit hours. I think that it was the time and chances for me to experience as a client in the group counselling and individual counselling session. I can also see how they conduct a counselling session before I take the course of individual counselling for the coming second semester. Besides that, we can claim the credit hours through the counselling session. One stone kill two birds, I become the client in individual counselling session and I obtained some experiences from them and learned the skills that they used in counselling session. In the class of  Basic Helping Skill, Dr Fa will give us the practice of case study for us to answer the questions based on the skill and therapy that we had learned in the class. Through this types of questions, I can understand and learned more about t what skills and therapy that was able to use based on the below situation take can help the client to solve the problems when the client came to see the counselor.

As a  trainee or future counselor, we are interested on client's issues, not the people. During the counselling session, we need to be professional and controlled the emotion whatever the moods for the day was not good. We need to perform eye contact to the client to show that you are interested and listen to the client's issues. One important thing to be counselor was we need a big pocket to keep the WHY questions. This is because if the WHY questions been asked, the client will try to find the reason to skip the questions and the client will feel uncomfortable during the counselling session.

The second assignment was that we need to conduct a video of helping session. Helping session was not the counselling session but it was just help the people. This assignment make me stress because I was the main character in the video and I don't know how to take video. This make the video feel interesting and funny in creating the scene in the video because of me and my group members because we liked to laugh when we take the video but finally we finished take the video before due date. 

My experience in the class of Basic Helping Skill was unforgettable and there were many interesting moment happened among the lecturer and coursemates that make me feel comfortable to enter the class every Tuesday for Semester One. That all from me.....A big Thank You need to say.......Thank You..

****FIGHTING EVERYONE!!!****

TEO YII JING

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KMC 1083 Basic Helping Skills Class, My First Semester.

💙"Indeed when you made a selection, then set your trust in GOD" 💙

💌Assalamualaikum and Hello everyone 😊💌…

How's everything? I'm Shaza🙂 from Serian, Sarawak. Today🌞, I will share experiences during the KMC 1083 Basic Helping Skills class📕. On January 19, 2017, Tuesday is the first day of entering the Dr. Fa class. When entering FSKPM TR1🏢 class, there was no one who came at that time. In my heart whispered, was I wrong in class? Apparently, it was still early at 8:00 AM. 🕗😁

 🕘Time after time passed, other students arrived. Each one looks forward to the arrival of the lecturer. Finally, the lecturer arrived, introducing himself as Dr. Fatahyah Binti Yahya. Dr. Fa looks serious at first, after a few minutes Dr. Fa looks friendly and always smile 🙂. Dr. Fa is also knowledgeable in the field of counseling, giving me motivation in education and as a counseling trainee. Before the introductory session, Dr. Fa shows us the video🐻 on "Energizer Dance - Charlie Bear Agadoo"🐻 as an exercise. With that, I felt energetic😆. Nervous feeling is gone. When Dr. Fa asks "what is your strength?" Ohh no, I do not know how to answer what ❔.. I blur 😅.  After answering the question of Dr. Fa, I realized recently that I never knew what my strength was. There are more things to know about yourself.

In class, I just know that the field of counseling can lead to professionals. Being a professional counselor will need to study phases and stages in helping the process, theory, helping skill, technique as well as being a good effective helper. The counselor must also maintain the confidentiality of the client except for certain reasons.

In preparing an individual assignment, I can know myself more deeply. Through the process in preparing the task, I realize that it can motivate myself. The assignment was quite interesting and challenging to be done. I am grateful to👲 Joseph and 👩Yii Jing for giving full cooperation and interesting ideas in setting up a group assignment. Thank you very much to Dr. Fa and also to my friends in helping providing ideas and guidance in preparing the assignment. 

That's all I can share at this moment. I'm happy to know all my friends. Hopefully we all will be successful in any situation in the face of allegations and challenges as counseling students. 🎓

Thanks and regards.

💚Speak a good word or remain silent💚.

-Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him)-

🌹Shazalilawany Binti Faizal - 62497🌹

my experience in Unimas

Hello everyone, I’m Michelle Lee. Everyone call me Michelle💜. I am a shy person when you meet me first and our conversation is going to be awkward because I would have absolutely nothing to say to you, but once I find you attractive and start comfortable with you, I will never stop talking and annoy you. I think going to University is a life changing experience.🏠 The environment necessarily forces the development of the student, our mind, our thoughts, our opinions and who we are.  For me, its the first time I live independently. I have to juggle aspects of life such as money, accommodation, health, relationships, family and future career plans.  This can be overwhelming, especially when “life happens” and the unexpected arises.  Before that, I don’t know if I am the only one who want to move out from Unimas since first day because of the MAP. Okay forget about that. Unimas is a very welcoming place, I have made many new friends from many different backgrounds. They are Sarawakian, Sabahan and from Semenanjung. Especially friends on my floor in residence , they allowed me an insight into their cultures. I am so glad to be able to try their food especially laksa Sarawak and Mee Kolok. I am so excited because I have been choose as one of the Unimas Counselling student even I have no ideas what I am going to learn at first. Thank you for reading guys, I hope you guys have a nice day!💘 😘💋💁

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My Experience During Basic Helping Skills Class

          Hi everyone! I am Pei Ling and I am from Kuching, Sarawak. I am here to share with guys about experience during Basic Helping Skills class. At the beginning, I feel very nervous and worried actually. This is due to I do not know who are going to teach this subject and are the lecturer strict or not. But when Dr. Fa come in to Tutorial Room, she smile to us. Then I find that Dr Fa is gentle and friendly person. After attending Basic Helping Skills class, I find that this subject very interesting actually. I had learnt about what is helping, helper, helpee, the characteristics of effective helpers and the types of helpers through the first lesson. Besides that, I had learnt about various helping techniques and skills by attending Basic Helping Skills class. The most important things is that all those helping techniques and skills is very important for a counselor. This is because all those techniques and skills can helps a counselor to deal with client's issues and helps to ensure the counseling sessions run smoothly.
          Next, I would like to talk about my experience in doing my individual assignment. After finishing this assignment, I find that it helps me to know myself better. Why do I say so? This is because this assignment require me to write about myself, my family, my favourite song and the ways in managing my own behavior. The most interesting part for me in this assignment is the happiness project which is the three good things. This is because this part require me to do three good things in a day. I try to do at least three good things each day in order to finish this part of assignment. This activities make me find that I am actually can do a lot of good things in a month. That's all from me. Thanks for reading!😊


Chai Pei Ling
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Here are my 2-cents..

Hi everyone! How is it going? It’s me Shikin. I wish you guys well this holiday. I am back again to write another post. This time it is going to be short. I guess. So in this entry I am going to talk about Helping Yourselves first before Helping Others. That sounds familiar right.

Now, here are my thoughts on Helping Yourselves first before Helping Others. I don’t know but, this thought just popped up onto my head when I was reading the entry you guys wrote. I somehow realized in Dr. Fa class not only we learnt to help others, but also we learnt how to help ourselves to be better. Every words she utter in the class was very meaningful and have this strong influence to how I think. So, in the class there is this phrase where she always said which is “simpan dalam poket dulu. Kaunselor poket kena besar.” I somehow realized that this also can be applied in so many other things or situations. We are humans we make mistakes, we argue and what not. I learnt that to not let all what is on your mind out can do good too, as not everyone can accept our opinion and not everyone perceive a situation the same as ours. Here I learnt that we should be more understanding, being tolerant and to feel empathy. This ‘help yourselves first before helping others’ also help me to understand people better. Even I myself can’t understand my mind at times. It helps me to understand that not everyone is the same that every human beings on earth is unique and had a sense of identity themselves. In the class I also learnt on how to improve myself in terms of skills, personality, behavior management and a lot more.    

So, with the coming semester and another 4 years I wish all of us do our best in the current time and be the best in the future. Here is my favorite quote from the movie I loved soooo much that I would like to share. If you ever felt down and has no faith in yourself remember Optimus Prime once said “You may lose faith in us, but never in yourselves”.

                                          

NUR ASHIKIN BINTI MOHD RADZI ASMARA

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